mercedo's Journal: Looking For A New Relationship

I need a new job, a new girlfriend. As to a job, I am working one job, though I need to find another job. But for the present I intend to take a rest for a while -probably one month. How about a girlfrind? It's kinds of crazy for a middle-aged guy like me not to have a girlfriend. This is urgently needed. Honestly speaking, I feel like doing nothing but to find another girlfriend soon. It's the same as finding a job, unless I am afraid of compromising, I think I can get another girlfriend soon.

My advice

[Henry V .009]

Every time you see a pretty girl:

1. Find an excuse to speak with her.
2. Find an excuse to get her phone number.

Eventually it becomes second nature. There are very few girls that ever refuse if you are good at it. The main trick is finding ways to avoid spending money on dates. Unless you're rich, that gets expensive way too fast.

Re:My advice

[mercedo]

Every time I always tried to attack directly, and failed to find the chances.

Find an excuse to speak with her. Find an excuse to get her phone number.

I remember I was doing the same thing in my early thirties, now that's what I have already forgotten.

Yeah, I do. It's very important to start talking whatever the initiation of relationship might be it doesn't matter. For example, where is the bank? what time is it? You know how to go to the beach? etc. I believe any people are wanting to encounter a new r

Re:My advice

[FidelCatsro]

It's all a case of quick deduction and knowing what to say to what person.
For example chat up lines such as "you are gorgeous , would it be forward of me to invite you to a meal" will work on some people , where as "nice boobs" may work on another(Please don't actually use that one , there is such a small chance of it working heh) .
Most people like confidence .. so long as it is not overly confident as few people like the conceited(unless you can pull it off amusingly )

For example you say " What time is it

Re:My advice

[mercedo]

'Nice boobs' I try.

Being myself.

My sixth of a bit:

[BandwidthHog]

Avoid any woman that you can pick up in a bar.

Because if you can, anybody can.

Re:My sixth of a bit:

[FidelCatsro]

;) whilst your free and single there is nothing wrong with a bit of fun heh and the compliments are rather nice ( I like being called god)...
but if your in for a fulfilling relationship with an intellectual equal based on your personality then avoid them .. however if you are in the mood for some raw animal love ..

Seriously though , you're right . nothing beats friendship and love mixed into one glorious package (which is why many men like their hands.... I can't resist smutty jokes)

Re:My sixth of a bit:

[mercedo]

I used to have good relations with 8 girls, in which I met 6 out of 8 in a bar. I married twice, in which 2 out of two I met in a bar.

You are right, if I sought for a serious relation, I would rather avoid finding the one in a bar. We all are drunk. We can't be responsible for further more serious life in general. You are right. The problem is whether I can confess seriously in front of an ordinary girl.