It's not that you guys don't get piles of shit, it's that your piles of shit are smaller compared to everyone else.
How do you know? How many miles have you walked in my shoes? If you did walk in my shoes you might find my burden unbelievably light, or unbearably heavy. Yet you would still not know how heavy it is to me.
Like many, I have been taught and trained to carry my burdens with equanimity. Thus those burdens appear small to you. You will never know how great they are to me.
I will not prostitute those burdens to pay for the right to speak, and I will not trade your pity for a job, a raise, or a house.