I have owned a Chevy Bolt for nearly 2 years and I love it as do a number of friends who have the same. I also have a number of friends and neighbors with Teslas who love them as well.
I did a cost comparison vs. the Toyota Camry that was replaced by the Bolt. As you say, no trips to the shop for oil changes, smog checks and the like. Charging vs. fueling has been roughly $3,500 less over 27,000 miles. That's based on my area's off-peak electric rates and average regular gasoline price. I actually have solar panels that generate enough for the car and house and am also not counting all the free charging at hotels and businesses. If I were to assume that the solar system was exclusively fuel for the car, the break-even time would be 4-years.
EVs are really fun in the hills. No whining engine and constant shifting.
I live in the San Francisco Bay Area and trips to Yosemite, Tahoe, Carmel/Monterey are no problem - generally requiring no or just a few minute charge on the way then free charging at the hotel. I've driven to/from Las Vegas for work several times. Yes, charging on the road adds time to the trip but those trips are every several months. Typically I spend a total of 3-minutes/week plugging/unplugging the car at home rather than diverting to a gas station somewhere so you win some, you lose some.
And, yes, you definitely want a model with liquid cooling for the batteries.