Honestly, how hard can it be to have another button to confirm the moderation?
I started to look at making a FF add-on (extension) to alleviate the issue, but it seemed like overkill for what I wanted to do. Then a friend mentioned GreaseMonkey. I hadn't looked at it before, but a bit of research made it appear to be the tool for the job. 5 hours later, and we have a winner!
If you use Firefox and GreaseMonkey, feel free to give it a shot, comment, or improve it! Moderatrix for GreaseMonkey on Firefox. Get it while it's hot!