(On a side note, am I the only one who finds the prejudice against tattoos and piercings offensive?)
Apparently, by now the two sides of the debate are this:
1. It is wrong for a woman to leave a talented, dedicated husband who goes to a job interview and does not get this particular job.
2. It is OK for a woman to leave a lazy husband who does not want to work.
From my POV these two positions are not mutually exclusive at all. So what exactly are we fighting over?