the fact that Zoe Quinn is scum either way- it's Zoe's own actions that have created that reality and no one elses.
Except for the fact that, you know, this wasn't anyone's actual business until a jilted lover spilled his guts in a public display of broken heartedness. But sure, she's entirely responsible.
"It doesn't much signify whom one marries for one is sure to find out next morning it was someone else." -- Rogers