Comment If you can't get respect without being a BOFH... (Score 1) 902
In some environments, acting like BOFH is the best way to get users and coworkers to respect you, and there is little you can do about it. Some workplaces expect employees to compete "tooth-and-nail" with each other, and BOFH-type maneuvers are considered not only legitimate but also a sign of intelligence. Since changing the culture of a given workplace is extremely difficult, if you find yourself in this position and cannot (or will not) play that game, you should consider leaving at the earliest opportunity; otherwise, you will either become a BOFH... or get abused by users and coworkers until you break down and/or get fired.