Umm, maybe I'm missing something important, but is not the the whole point of optics to transform radiation flux? The Hubble for example concentrates all the light from a star hitting it's entire multi-meter lens onto just a few pixels of its imaging plane. If the person was just standing next to the star the net energy transfer would be zero, but as soon as you introduce optics you should be getting get asymmetries in the energy transfer.
A set of properly tuned lenses or reflectors can project the image (or at least radiant flux) of the person over the entire surface of the star, and conversely an image of the star over the entire surface of the person. The two bodies will then experience a net energy transfer until the total radiation flow in both directions is equal: at which point if you were standing in the column of light between my reflectors you would see the same radiation flux in both directions. However, once focused on to the surface of the respective bodies the flux will be radically different - the person has far less surface area, and thus the concentrated flux levels will be far higher around them than around the star. Which means of course that they would have to be *radically* hotter than the star to be emitting the same amount of total energy.
I will admit though that at first glance this seems to break the laws of thermodynamics, I just don't see the flaw. Is it really not possible to focus the entire output of a radiant surface onto something smaller than itself? That just seems very unlikely - after all the converse is clearly not true: a lightbulb can light a room with no problems. Seal it in a perfectly reflecting globe with a single tiny hole and the luminous intensity will climb until the light escaping through the hole is equivalent to the light emitted by the bulb. The bulb's temperature will obviously climb as well as it reabsorbs photons, but so long as it doesn't destroy itself, if you're putting 100W of power in, sooner or later you'll be getting 100W of light streaming out of that tiny hole. I think that's actually part of the principle behind lasers, but it's been a long time since I reviewed the physics there, so don't hold me to that.