Good post; thank you. I think many who champion renewables don't understand the issues involved in spinning up/shutting down the big power plants, and what that means for grid stability.
I'd tend to agree that we want to see more smaller scale power plants and I think we will over time, though it's going to be difficult. The industry has spent a lot of time and effort consolidating everything into larger facilities mostly out of sight, so to move smaller facilities out into the suburbs runs into all kinds of problems. You'll have the NIMBY folks of course no matter what kind of plant it is. There will be infrastructure rebuilds and re-routes that will disrupt people and cause their own set of problems. A big solar field will probably have less opposition generally, but of course those require a lot of room--which can be hard to find near a suburb.
Concur completely about going LED where it's possible. I live 100% off-grid and so watch every watt that the house uses like a hawk. Recently I just swapped out all of my halogen track lights to LEDs, dropping energy use (if they were all on at once) from 2000W to 320W--an amazing difference. These track lights were the last remaining "hard" lights to replace as they're a GU-10 form factor and there aren't a lot of that size LEDs out there.
Now I can focus on the rest of the house with more "conventional" bulbs. Everything else in the house is CFL; there are 255 lights in all inside and I've managed to covert 125 of those to LED so far. It'll be a project I probably won't finish for a year (LEDs are pricey) but when I'm done I'll use a lot less power for my lighting.
Small steps!
Ferret