Comment Re:Just don't use facebook and stop crying (Score 1) 363
This will assist you in deciding whether it's a good idea to post those hilarious drunken half-naked pictures of you groping that dude dressed up in a Grimace costume.
And therein lies the real problem, of which Facebook is merely the grand-daddy of monetized symptoms: I should have the right to post a compromising picture or story of myself (or an innocent picture or story that is only compromising out of context) to have a private chuckle at my own expense with a few friends and family and suffer no immediate or future consequences. We've all got embarrassing pictures of ourselves and others, and they of us, but it never used to cost us a future job except in the rarest of deliberate & vindictive betrayals by a friend/family member.
Now, the internet is forever and you never know when your privacy might be breached over something you no longer remember. As long as simple cut and paste exists, this risk doesn't go away even with opensource solutions where you control your information exactly the way you want. It's too easy & common for someone to innocently put their copy of that picture on their website or e-mail or whatever, and you can never put that embarrassing genie back in the bottle, just pray that no one stumbles along the wild internet and connects the "whatever" back to you.
Maybe Facebook et al. need to be reigned in, but they are merely taking advantage of (& are a symptom of) the real problem. Society will either have to learn to go back to sharing risque items via "sneakernet" or society & the corporate world will have to learn to disregard anything found on the 'tubes as heresay and unfounded rumour, even when it consists of actual proof.
And therein lies the real problem, of which Facebook is merely the grand-daddy of monetized symptoms: I should have the right to post a compromising picture or story of myself (or an innocent picture or story that is only compromising out of context) to have a private chuckle at my own expense with a few friends and family and suffer no immediate or future consequences. We've all got embarrassing pictures of ourselves and others, and they of us, but it never used to cost us a future job except in the rarest of deliberate & vindictive betrayals by a friend/family member.
Now, the internet is forever and you never know when your privacy might be breached over something you no longer remember. As long as simple cut and paste exists, this risk doesn't go away even with opensource solutions where you control your information exactly the way you want. It's too easy & common for someone to innocently put their copy of that picture on their website or e-mail or whatever, and you can never put that embarrassing genie back in the bottle, just pray that no one stumbles along the wild internet and connects the "whatever" back to you.
Maybe Facebook et al. need to be reigned in, but they are merely taking advantage of (& are a symptom of) the real problem. Society will either have to learn to go back to sharing risque items via "sneakernet" or society & the corporate world will have to learn to disregard anything found on the 'tubes as heresay and unfounded rumour, even when it consists of actual proof.