>Maybe if we changed the system so that we didn't reward the win at all cost mentality,
Nature is a system that favors the win at all costs.The winners (in wars) are the ones that write the history books. The winners in games are the ones the viewers. The winners in finance are the ones that make the most money. You are going to have a hard time changing the system because being the winner is what most people want.
Nature does not favor winning at all cost and usually is just the opposite. It is the cooperative or symbiotic relationship that prospers.
The writers of history have nothing to do with nature. Nor do the winners in games or finance. As for that being what people want, well what happened to Enron? What happened to Lance Armstrong? What happened to the Romans? All those embraced winning at all cost and all were toppled.
Society tolerates winning at all cost only to a point, then like bullying, they rise up against it. That is where anti-trust laws came from in business and anti-doping laws in sports and even the Geneva convention in war. Eventually, civilized people settle on rules of fair play.
So does nature. The giant redwood does take all of the nutrients in the forest, just those it needs. Same for the fox or a bear. In our own bodies, we call cells that take too much cancer and cut them out. Why? because even those those cells are the fittest, they destroy the body. In nature, if the animal at the top of the food chain eats all the food, the animal dies, too. So, in nature, a proper balance is maintained (unless man does something to upset it, like introduce a non native species or change the habitat or environment).
Not even Darwin believed in survival of the fittest. He used that expression only twice in the entire On the Origen of the Species. He actually proposed cooperation as the better model using human beings as the example since we were not the fastest or strongest nor did we posses the sharpest claws or teeth. Instead in cooperating we were successful in dominating the planet.
So, even in nature, the win at all cost model does not win.
Almost, but not quite. Nature is not about competing organisms or communities of organisms. It is about competing strategies. Nature indeed rewards winning strategies and punishes losing strategies, but the organism or community of organisms that employ them are just along for the ride. But nature is mutable; it is just the current context in which a given strategy or strategies are evaluated. If the context is allowed to change, then there is a new set of criteria against which strategies are evaluated, and if the strategy doesn't change, the organism or community of organisms employing that strategy might not make it into the next generation, which is the only criteria against which any strategy can be judged. In that sense, nature is indeed winner-take-all, and neatly explains what happened to Enron and the Roman civilization.. Thus, I would posit that preventing the context change becomes a viable strategy. The rise of human civilization is all about controlling nature, controlling the context in a way that preserves whatever strategy that is currently being used. The Romans failed to prevent a context change forced on them by the Visigoths, and so did Enron, a context change forced on them by having to live by the rules that they were discovered violating. What happened to Lance Armstrong can be read the same way: Armstrong's strategy of performance enhancing drugs was successful until other riders forced a context change on him, forcing him to compete on their terms, not on his terms.
In finance, large corporations saw what happened to Enron, and are working very hard to make sure that the context change that killed Enron won't be allowed to happen to them. They are doing this by making sure they have control over the mechanism that controls the context in which they operate. In the US, that means successfully influencing lawmakers that make the rules and regulations they operate under, and by inserting people into positions of authority that control fiscal policy in this country. It remains to be seen whether or not they will be successful, but if they are, then there will be no more Enron-like disasters for them.