Comment Re:Maybe, but... (Score 1) 612
I'm not sure if you're really trolling or not...
So let me risk wasting a little time...
You're right that Iran isn't being constructive about their reaction and actions - they're acting childish too.
But does that give us a pass? Surely it doesn't mean that assassination of their scientists, supporting the proxy war, flying spy drones over their country, supporting the MEK etc is all well and good. [They shot my dog, so I can shoot their kids?]
Surely you wouldn't make that argument, right?!
I can't easily change Iran - it's hard enough changing the thinking and actions of MY country.
Rather than futilely trying to force someone else to act different, I need to constrain myself.
Perhaps if I look at MY actions first, I may find reasons for the *reaction* I get from those I interact with.
So, Yes - Iran is doing lots of stupid things too. They're at least partially responsible for the bad relationship. [But if I look at the magnitude of the insults and bad-blood over the years - it's pretty obvious to me [and perhaps you'll disagree] that we [the US] are way more than 50% responsible.]
Further I know that I can only change *my* actions, *my* character - and *my* country. I can't change you, or your character, or Iran.
So, as in any bad relationship, change YOURSELF first and see what happens. You may [almost certainly will] find that change in your character and actions for the better has very magnified impacts on the others in that relationship. It may not lead to a place where everything is just "peachy keen" - but it's different. Then you can decide what you'll do different next.
However, THE recipe for total loss, stalemate, and disaster is to wait for the other side to do it different first.
It would seem from your posting above that you're going to wait by for the other side to change first. Sort of like the two little kids yelling at each other; "he hit me first." It might even be true - but taking that approach only means the war continues forever.
Change starts right here.
* with Me *
If I'm not willing to admit my faults and character flaws, why should anyone else start first?
I'm making the point that WE [the US] are a serious part of the problem, and demonizing the Iranians and their government won't solve a thing. It will just mean that more Americans and more Iranians end up dead or otherwise injured [mentally, physically, emotionally, financially] somewhere. We can complain about how badly the Iranians treated us, or we can recognize the horrible things OUR government has done in our name - and without a lot of complaint from the population. We can strive to learn the lesson.
Or we can continue to keep repeating the same lesson again, paying the high price each time in blood and treasure.
I, personally, strive to learn my lessons the first time.
-Greg