autism is generally 3-4 times as common in men as in women
It's entirely possible that the criteria for autism are defined in such a way that they favor its presentation in boys and men.
it is generally accepted that the female brain is wired for social interaction.
Is it? By whom? Certainly not by anyone involved in gender studies. Be wary of science that too easily reinforces gender stereotypes.
(Please note that I am saying these three things can all be true at the same time, not that any one or all of them necessarily are.)
Many falsehoods have been spread about the allegations against Assange. In addition, the circumstances surrounding the allegations, as well as certain actions by the women who made them, have been used to discredit those women. But these are, as Kate Harding puts it, "tactics used to discredit rape victims every day, and not Really Convincing Special Facts About This Particular Case." [1] (I very strongly urge you to read her piece in its entirety.)
Please don't let your admiration for Assange's work with Wikileaks prevent you from taking seriously an accusation of rape. Rape is a serious crime, and accusations of rape need to be taken seriously, even if—perhaps especially if—they are made against people we otherwise consider to be heroic.
[1] "Some Shit I'm Sick of Hearing Regarding Rape and Assange": http://kateharding.info/2010/12/16/some-shit-im-sick-of-hearing-regarding-rape-and-assange/
How can you do 'New Math' problems with an 'Old Math' mind? -- Charles Schulz