If you are a functional human being you believe in things you have inadequate or no evidence for.
In some cases, we must, on the basis of risk-benefit analysis, act without sufficient evidence, because to fail to act would have worse consequences than even a poor action, or an act will benefit us greatly if it succeeds and cost little or nothing if it fails. But those aren't irrational actions at that point.
You just said you're married - do you have evidence that you picked the best spouse you could? Do you believe you did?
My evidence leading up to it was that we'd already lived together for several years by that point, and found ourselves to remain very compatible, and to have very little friction. There are, of course, no absolute guarantees in something like marriage, but that's about as good of a litmus test as you get. The evidence afterward, of course, is that after a couple of years so far, we still love each other very much and enrich one another's lives. Even if somehow that were to change and one day we split up, the time spent with her would be well worth the effort expended, and I had good indications that it would be so. So yes, I think that was a rational decision.
I don't think I could ever say with absolute certainty that I picked "the best I could," nor could she, as there just is no way to know something like that. What we can both say is that we're still very happy with the choice we made, we chose well, and we both approached the whole thing with eyes wide open and wanting to ensure we would be able to deal with the stresses of day to day life together. Once we determined we could (gathered evidence), we took the next step.
We're constantly making underdetermined but pragmatic decisions and then believing we actually made the optimum choice and not looking back.
I've made many far less than optimum choices, especially under time pressure. When I know I had to make a hasty decision on very little evidence, I always take a look over my shoulder afterwards. Figuring out what I anticipated or extrapolated incorrectly can prevent me from making the same mistake again. We'll always be forced into snap judgments by circumstances sometimes, but presuming you were right without looking back to see if you were is passing up a very valuable learning opportunity. If you were right, learn from that so you can do it again. If you were wrong, learn from that so you don't.
We make value and aesthetic judgements and believe them wholeheartedly. It's part of being human.
Of course! There's this perception that being rational makes one a robot, devoid of emotion or the ability to appreciate the world. It couldn't be farther from the truth-those things enrich our lives greatly, as well as contributing tremendously to our ability to think and act in creative and innovative ways, and giving them up entirely would be irrational on that basis. Rather, we must learn how to control our urges, and just as importantly, when to cut them loose and just enjoy a breathtaking sunset, or good sex, or a gourmet meal, or a complex painting, or whatever happens to appeal to you. Because yes, that is a part of being human, and a very valuable part. But if it leads you into trouble, like the appeal of one more score to the junkie, rationality has to step in front of that powerful urge. Nothing else will.