Submission + - Do tech-guys end-up happier than arts-types? 1
Bruce G Charlton writes: "Blogger Michael Blowhard attends a 35 year high school reunion and finds that the men who went into technical careers seem (so far) happier than those who chose the arts.
http://www.2blowhards.com/archives/2007/09/reunions_2_guyh_1.html#004452
" Now that we're in our early 50s, the calmest and least-troubled guys are the ones who are working in technical fields. Without exception, these old classmates are now mellow and happy souls. They have the contentedness of people leading comprehensible, satisfying lives, lives characterized by finite obligations and dependable rewards.
At the other end of the mood-spectrum are the angst-ridden bunch: namely, guys who long ago fell in love with the arts. (...) The guys in this group are jumpier and more tormented. They may perhaps have known giddier highs, but they've also experienced darker and more frequent lows, as well as far fewer steady, count-upon-able stretches.
Where the tech guys keep on a dependable plane — they have routines, and they enjoy them — the arts guys are still living like post-grads, moment to moment. Most are still caught up in the "doing my art" vs. "keeping up a day job" plight. (...) Perhaps, despite all its ravished-by-aesthetic-bliss moments, the love affair with art has finally been more like a bad and humiliating marriage, wrecking one's chances at what might have been straightforward happiness.
A small discovery: By one's early 50s, emotional rollercoastering will have taken a toll not just on the nerves but on the body. Many of our artsguys these days seem exhausted, strung out, even physically twisted.""