Sure I don't expect my wife to do all that work. But I find that when I do it, I'm not meeting her expectations of clean/cooking. She goes behind me and cleans it to her satisfaction. So it ends up that she does all that work around the house. I'll pick up my stuff and put things in the sink or dishwasher but I won't go shopping (unless it's with her) and won't clean or cook unless she's away.
I do yardwork (cleanup; mow, gutters, roof, leaves, trim bushes but no design stuff), manage the garage, and keep the vehicles going and build things.
If it has to do with the inside though, it's off limits (unless I'm doing the work like painting or moving furniture).
With that said, that's in the past now. She bailed a couple of years back so I do _all_ the work now. Turns out I'm a lot pickier about keeping the house clean than she was. She just needed to be in control. :)
[John]