Being against gay marriage is being anti-gay. You can't oppose certain rights only for members of a certain group and not be against that group in effect, even if you believe so with all your heart.
BULLSHIT. Gay people are humans correct? So consequently, they have human rights. So why do they need gay rights? What they do in the privacy of their own home is their own business. It only becomes everyone's business when we have to ascertain whether someone is gay or not and that is a requirement for "gay" rights.
We hate your tactics and your meddling in society and your attempts to redefine what the social norms are. We are not anti-gay. We are anti-gay activists. Live your life without trying to alter the social norms and nobody will bother you. If you try to "pervert" (change) what is considered normal then you will meet resistance.
The reality is that you people have invented this notion that you are hated in your own mind and that people hate you because you are gay. No, we hate you if you act like an asshole and try to lord over the rest of us. We hate you for what you are trying to do to the rest of us and our society. I am not responsible for your happiness. You are the only person who can decide if you are happy or not.
I never asked to be harassed and bullied when I was growing up in high school. Do you support bullying too? My bully was a gay kid. He bullied/harassed me to make himself feel better. He even tried to convince classmates that I was gay but he could not convince me or my girlfriends of that lie. I forgave that bully a long time ago but I don't know if he ever forgave himself. I would not be surprised if you were to try to blame the victim (me) and suggest that it was somehow my fault.
I think it is high time for society to stand up to bullies like you. We cannot make you happy. You have to choose to be happy and no amount of changes to laws will make you happy. Happiness is a choice.