Sorry to tickle your sensibilities Chester.
I hate to burst your bubble but all people who have sex with children are technically pedophiles if they have sex because they are attracted to that child. I am not sure about the "myth" that you are stating. There is a subset of pedophiles that don't have sex with children but are sexually attracted to children, I am not talking about those people. I am strongly against prosecuting people for mind crimes.
I am not for violating anyone rights until they commit an actual crime. If you think you can look and not touch and you're one of the good ones, then all I can say is only time will tell the tale.
Your argument is lame since you could describe a pharmacist, nurse or doctor as drug dealer. I am not sure what finite point you are trying to make but I am sure that you understand the implicit meaning of what I am saying anyway.
What if it was not illegal to have sex with children Chester? Would you still look and not touch?
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