I'm a gun owner and strongly anti-NRA. I support strong background checks, gun restrictions (caliber, rate of fire, and magazine capacity), and closing the private sales loophole (iow, requiring background checks in all situations).
I'm not sure what you mean by strong background checks (the government does some background checks for security clearances that requires interviewing friends and acquaintances. Not only are they expensive as hell, which makes them impractical, but they're also overly intrusive for the purpose at hand). I would support checking for a criminal record. I would also agree with requiring such a check on private sales if it was easy and cheap for any private citizen to request this information prior to a sale.
I do not advocate hunting except in certain circumstances (and I don't eat meat anymore which is part of that).
I understand your argument emotionally, which is why I don't hunt. I couldn't really go through with killing an animal and seeing it die. That said, there are two things which I understand: first, hunting is a more humane way of acquiring meat than supermarket shopping. At least the animals you hunt had a free life until you decided you were hungry. Animals raised to be slaughtered are raised in horrible conditions with no space to even walk. Second, in certain areas where certain animals have no natural predators, their numbers must be controlled. So I consider regulated seasonable hunting to be actually quite good and in some cases necessary.
or teaching children to shoot. Teenagers start to become old enough and responsible enough for that
I think that's a parenting decision, not a government one. I do, however, support prosecuting the parents for negligence in cases of accidents caused by children with guns due to either insufficient supervision (if you're going to teach your child to shoot a gun, you better be watching them very closely) or no supervision (you should be responsible for locking your guns away where children can't get to them).
The NRA tends to think of guns as the solution to a lot of problems, which means now you have new problems. I also do not share the thinking that our guns would be sufficient to fight off the government.
No argument from me. If the ACLU didn't completely ignore gun rights, I could stop supporting the NRA and their more extreme segment.
"Well-regulated" is very important to me.
Well, the complete quote is "A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.".
How I personally interpret this, and I'm fully aware it's a controversial issue and my interpretation isn't the only one, is that it's a two-part statement. The first one is the justification, that a well-regulated militia is necessary. The second is the restriction upon the government: "the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed." It doesn't say, "the right of the militia," it says the "the right of the people." The way I see it, the reasoning was that the more people we have with guns, and trained to use them, the easiest it is to just draft people to form said well-regulated militia in a hurry if it becomes necessary to defend your country from an invasion.
Not that I personally see the reasoning as important. I don't think the founding fathers were some type of gods who were always right about everything. I do think it should be difficult to change the law of the land. If as a people we decide that the second amendment is no longer relevant in today's world, and government should have the right to to restrict the right of people to bear arms after all, then pass an amendment nullifying it. There's a process in place to do that. If there's not enough support to do it, then it shouldn't be changed.
What I do believe in is statistics. Gun deaths aren't really happening in large numbers in the United States. Last I checked, pools were far more dangerous (not that they're particularly dangerous either). Car accidents rule. Other large killers in the country include heart disease, diabetes, and cancers. I'm a programmer, and when I'm trying to make my code faster, I use a profiler, figure out where the hot path is, and concentrate on those before I start trying to parallelize that small for loop that iterates 10 times. That strategy tells me we should concentrate on better educating the public regarding safe driving, the value of maintaining a healthy weight, and the dangers of cigarettes, We should also invest money in R&D to help find cures for the diseases killing us. Gun owners? Most of them are like yourself, people who don't want to hurt anyone. Why waste resources making their lives difficult?