Hard for Americans to understand, but they are just grown up
Ah, I see, the Dutch are grown-up, whereas Americans aren't... Racist much?
"American" isn't a race, so no not racist at all.
And I didn't call Americans not grown up. I just said it seems hard for Americans to understand that some people don't have an ingrained hatred for the collective good and don't see the need to throw a tantrum when the collective does something that they don't think is the perfect choice. Projecting that need seems to be treating them as not grown up and thus unable to make choices for themselves.
accept democratic allocation of such resources
Somehow I dislike anything remotely like "democratic allocation" of my resources... Maybe, I'm just a child throwing a tantrum — but if I were, how come I was able to earn any such "resources" to begin with?
I'm not sure what ability to earn resources has to do with it? Lots of temper throwing people have earned lots of resources. Lots of non-temper throwing people have earned few resources.
It's a simple difference in outlook - but for some reason you expect your "but they might spend money on something I don't personally like" view to be shared by the rest of the world - which is the bit that seems childish. America has a system in which the individual is more important than the collective (with some exceptions of course - the US does have a public highway system after all). The Netherlands has a system in which the collective is more important than the individual (with some exceptions of course - the Netherlands does have "the presumption of innocence"after all).
There are plenty of actual arguments against such a collective system which don't rely on "they should think the same as me". Though it's good to remember that Europe went through monarchies, fascism and totalitarian communism they know what happens to the extremes but they aren't at the extreme.
So the Netherlands has a health care system that produces better overall results on average (as indicated by higher life expectancy), while the US has a system that produces better results for the individuals who have significant personal resources (where "better" is relative between the US and the Netherlands). Of course the rich in the Netherlands get to use the US system anyway. Migration is not *that* difficult (though it's not as simple as it once was, especially migrating to the US) so people (in particular the rich) can choose which system to live in anyway.
You can prefer the US system, but that doesn't mean everyone has to (in fact wouldn't it be unamerican to do so - if some individuals wish to live in a collective first society shouldn't they be able choose to do so?).
I guess many have argued that you only have the ability to earn those resources because of society in the first place and hence owe something back. If you actually want an answer to your question. But that's arguable.
Given the Dutch life expenctency is 81 I doubt they consider living past 75 immoral
I don't see a connection...
You brought up that some American thought living over 75 was "immoral" (even though they stated no such thing) for no apparent reason. Given the no apparent reason it's not surprising no one can see a connection.
Or it means it's restricted to the people who match what it was designed for. Or it means it's an experiment [...]
The point was, if one option is better than another, than the only way to fairly limit access to the better option is to make it more expensive. It just may be, of course, that there no need to impose such limits — e-mail, for example, is both better and cheaper than First Class mail — and it is great, when this happens. But it is rare...
You declared "well that means" and provided a dichotomy. Are you now saying that you were presenting a false dichotomy?