Comment Re:So what? (Score 1) 489
Every time my toddling nephew picks up a truck toy or a car toy, his parents coo over him and say stuff like "The boy loves his trucks." Every time his sister picks up a baby doll, her parents coo over her and say things like, "she is such a girl, and we haven't pushed her in this direction at all." Kids are very malleable and very sensitive to negative social cues. They don't need anything as blatant as someone telling all the girls that math is hard and wouldn't they rather play house?
Bingo.
So, when representatives of a field with a reputation for misogyny speak up and say that the women just don't like their field, I'm skeptical.
What do you propose to do and since when were science and tech jobs lucrative? I think that's probably the problem right there. It's not lucrative.
It pays the bills. If you're a womyn-born-womyn, however, it's easier just to sign up for entitlement programs. Those pay the bills, too. I see it all the time. Sometimes this behavior is even encouraged by the individual's mother!
I wish it wasn't that way, but what is there to do? Get me a genie so I can wish to be a womyn-born-womyn so I'm not blamed for choices others make? Sure, why not. That's perfectly fine with me. Won't be statistically significant, but at least I won't be accused of sexism anymore.
I mean, look. I have literally been accused of sexism because the I wasn't willing to resign a job I had and just roll over into a gutter because a womyn-born-womyn who had absolutely no background in tech believed that merely by having a vagina, that'd make her better at the job because Ada Lovelace had a vagina, too!
Sometimes accusations of sexism can be deeply rooted in sexism itself.
This is a situation where feminism would have more credibility in pointing the finger of sexism just as soon as they get around to caring about what percentage of builders, plumbers, HVAC technicians, and diesel mechanics are womyn-born-womyn. Instead, it seems that feminists and white knights are doing little more than exploiting the "geek" stereotype and engaging in bullying.
There are plenty of geek girls out there. If they want money, they go into sales or medicine where there is money. If they want family, they know how to get pregnant and enroll in entitlements. They have no need for science and tech careers.
They also know every time I point this out, there's a white knight that will jump up to defend their victimization. Well, sure, let's try to get more womyn-born-womyn into CS careers. I'm not the best teacher, but I've pointed numerous womyn-born-womyn at languages like Python and offered to answer questions, just that doesn't appear to do jack shit about this problem.
Hell, once I was helping a womyn-born-womyn with her C homework. I compiled it and ran it on my computer and didn't get the same result she got. I found the error (buffer overflow iirc that worked on win32 but not on linux) and told her why we were getting different results, but she jumped on me and called me sexist! How the hell is pointing out a buffer overflow sexist?! (Really, think about that. Does it make you feel good to know that there's a programmer out there, programming computers, who thinks that a buffer overflow is a term I invented because I was trying to intimidate her and be sexist!? And that the only reason she gets away with it is because of her assigned gender and all the feminists and white knights backing her up! If it were a guy we'd just call him ignorant or an idiot or both and be done with it. Womyn-born-womyn have the privilege of being victims when they're objectively wrong.)
Just don't punish me for being assigned the wrong gender at birth in any more ways than I've already encountered, but that's exactly all anyone's ever proposed. If I don't roll over into a gutter and hand my job over to a womyn-born-womyn who doesn't have any experience or education, then I must be sexist and a misogynist!
I am so, so sick of it. I am an individual, and I am not accountable for the actions and choices of others. I am sick of being beaten over the head with Ada Lovelace for no other reason that my assigned gender and stupid choice of career. What's funny is that I've never, ever encountered a woman using Ada Lovelace as a weapon who even understands her Notes. Well, unless I count myself, but that's because I forgot to type out womyn-born-womyn in the previous sentence.
If I had been a womyn-born-womyn, I think I might have studied human language or maybe history instead of CS. Instead, I wound up in CS because I had a knack for it and I needed a paycheck. It's not somewhere I would be if I had understood how money works earlier in life and had been interested in that or if I were able to start a family without worrying about how to provide for one. I wonder how many other assigned males that's true of?