( Warning: she's got a driven one-track mind, seems, and her links oft Aren't Safe For Work., but sometimes she gets it so right... )
Right. Amendment One, here, then:
I rigged this someone as a 'friend' on this system, because I found her humour refreshingly different from what normally goes-down here
( like the link of women wearing house-cats, that she labelled 'pussy', and if you've never been in-relationship-with woman to know female-humour, and that it stands on-its-own, and is different... )
It doesn't negate her humour if her body appears to be the body-of-a-woman, the body-of-a-gay, or even the body-of-a-bloomin-houseplant!...
Like her mind's effect on your mind, or not, and that's that, isn't it?
The stunning list of ones who determine that she's inherently offensive...
.. or this?
I use 'friends' setting to flag anyone who's shown me some insight, or offered good information, or undermined a cultural ignorance from in me, and the 'geeks' involved/involving in this
( ah, the sysadmin FAQ of usenet, of loooong ago, may clarify that jape, or maybe not, if me memory's porous in these, me aging years... )
She shows herself to someone