Journal memfree's Journal: Why I loved "Secretary" 6
First, take a look at your typical romantic comedy: boy meets girl, blood everywhere. No wait - those are Richard Thompson songs. Where was I? Oh right. Typical: boy meets girl, boy loses girl, goes to extreme lengths to get girl. Less common alternate (old school): boy meets girl, boy can't stand girl, boy realizes he loves girl, and puts up with extremes to appease girl (a la "Bringing up Baby"). Modern less common alternate: girl meets boy, girl rejects boy, boy goes to extreme lengths to get girl (a la "Sleepless in Seattle"). Now the twist I like in "Secretary": girl meets boy, girl loses boy, *girl* goes to extreme lengths to get boy.
The story is about a young woman who's been in the mental hospital. She's vulnerable, and feels she has no control of most things in her life. She gains control by cutting herself -- which was why she'd been hospitalized. The story is told exclusively from the female's POV, so the viewer is given a compassionate picture of the heroine's mental health (or lack thereof). She goes on her first job interview, and immediately has to deal with her would-be-boss's intrusiveness. He asks her overly personal questions and she just submits. She does not demand a right to privacy. She does not demand apology. She does not storm out. She submits. She is not capable of anything else.
The boss hires her, and proceeds to dominate her more and more completely -- humiliating her repeatedly, ordering her to do unnecessary and useless tasks (like looking through the garbage for notes, and then being ignored when they are retrieved -- "I found another copy"), and going into moderate S&M -- including spanking her. She loves it. She is getting attention. Even when the boss is ignoring her, he's doing it deliberately -- sort of an 'active' ignoring such that he is modifying his actions in a way she interprets as directed at her.
It'd be easy to argue that the film is degrading to women, but I don't think so because as the film progresses, the heroine gains control of herself. THAT is what made the film work for me. What the heroine wants is not what your average person might desire, but she has a goal, and she actively pursues it. I could relate more to this heroine than I could to
Oh, and the somewhat salacious bits were hot.
According to standard SM philosophy... (Score:2)
It is like any sex fantasy, like say "lady cop" where the uniform and the power associated with it is the kink of the "poor guy just trying to get out of the ticket".
The common mistake of most people is to assume that the submissives control of their own humiliation in this closed environment is just plain ol' humiliation. Heh. Hardly. Many rich and powerful people are sexual submissives because it is a forbidden fruit they cannot taste (powerlessness) in real life. Usually these same submissives could probably get their dominators deported to some far away island... but that isn't the point.
The nature of S&M is a tough one and not directly evident. But, as The Secretary shows, it can be very rewarding for those who enjoy it. In all truth then it is a feminist movie because the woman holds the true domain over the man.
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Then again (Score:1)
Maybe, horror of horrors, nobody is in charge.
Now *that* would be seriously cool.
Rustin
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That said, I think all real-life relationships involve a lot of give and take. Even in movies, there usually is *some* give and take -- even if simplistic and transient. I was so happy that the girl really WAS the hero (rather than some pouty femme complaining, "I want the fairy tale") that the simplistic nature of the plot didn't bother me.
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