It is a risk/reward calculation n the men's part. When the risk is life altering, or life threatening, the risk will not be taken be more and more men
What's the worst that could happen?
Scenario One - Ask a woman student out who is in the same college class as you????
Worst outcome - The man gets kicked out or prevented from attending college from a Title IX complaint the women or her friend files for "being uncomfortable" regardless of how polite, non-threatening and gentlemanly the man asks. The man is prevented from going to the class' building or even being on the college campus during the Title IX investigation and the Title IX investigation can take an entire semester. So 4 years of high school, thousands of hours of sacrifice by the man's parents and man, and tens of thousands of dollars in tuition, books and housing are lost. And, being kicked out of a top 20 university means attending a much lower tier university.
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Scenario Two - Ask a woman out at work, meet with a woman 1 on 1, get into an elevator with a woman at work
Worst outcome - The man is accused of inappropriate behavior, or even assault. Man loses job, could get arrested on an accusation alone without any additional evidence. Lose you job as a man and your chance of divorce is more than doubled, not being able to be a father (you right to be a father) to your children post-divorce, have to pay tens of thousands in legal fees (including your stay at home wife's legal fees) and risk being thrown in jail for unprovable silver bullet accusations in family court. And when in jail, have your life threatened, get gang raped, and lose your job and ability to get a comparable job in the future.
Scenario Three - Exist nearby and not even interact with a woman in a shopping district - Wikipedia Elanor Williams https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/...
Worst outcome - Be jailed before trial for months, lose job, divorce, attempt suicide, get life threatened in jail, get abused in jail, get PTSD, become unable to get a job or work, lose your family restaurant business, spend your entire savings defending against a criminal investigation of rape (accusation alone without any additional evidence).
These are a few scenarios where more interactions with women were turned into a minefield in the 2010s.
And add in that 20% of women have had mental health treatment in the last year, the risk of being nearby without interacting with an unstable women is much higher with high risks of permant damage to a man's life, job prospects and family life.
All very good and 100 percent accurate points. And none of this is fixable by men, other than passive avoidance, which is an unnatural situation. I've been told that I hate women just for recounting an experience.
And that's where we are. In a world where polite discussion is not permitted, where any disagreement ends up with pronouncements that you hate women, only women can fix any of this. Men are further castigated if they try.
Today, men are up against "https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/10/yes-actually-it-is-all-men/ https://holgerschueler.medium.....
Because womanism has morphed into demands that until no woman ever has any crime committed against them, then every man on the planet is guilty of all crimes against women.
And to think that disagreeing with that bit of utter, clearly stated hatred of every man on the planet will be written off as "misogyny
That is what womanism has morphed into. Pre-judgement that you are a rapist, and that you have personally
committed all of the crimes ever committed against any and all women.
This attitude is red fuming nitric acid level corrosive and toxic. The ultimate expression of fear culture. And it is very damaging to young women.
They have been taught they are the designated victim, that all men want to sexually savage them, keep them from education and careers, and there are no exceptions.
Yet this is confusing. Men have stopped interacting almost altogether, are stepping away from college, and are now less educated.
In business world, men largely avoid traveling with women co-workers, and when they do, take different flights, stay in different hotels, rent different cars, and eat meals separately.
Do we even think for a minute that this is natural? Do we think women like this at all?
Do we understand why men have reluctantly accepted and adapted to the sexual apartheid state that seems to be the only possible reaction to the pre-judgement of 100 percent of us being hell bent on hurting women. That making a woman uncomfortable is a crime?
But back to the women. A women growing up with the present narrative is still sexually attracted to men, would still like a romantic partner, would still like protection against the less civilized among us.
But she lowkey hates men, as she has been taught to do, and men now largely ignore her, and stay distant. But men she sees seem to be having fun, joking around, talking about things in their lives, then go quiet when she comes near.
Welcome to the harvest of late state feminism. Which might be called Dictatorship of the designated victims.
Very very confusing for her.
I get Cleary act notices, a requirement that any and all "sexcrime" be reported to people like me. When it started there were notices fairly regulaly, now it is maybe one a year or less.