Also what is funny, when I was reading this article I was considering taking another job off of my resume because I have been job hunting for weeks without much success. I already took two of the jobs I thought sucked off of my resume because I was fired from them. Meh, what are you going to do? LOL I didn't care about the jobs much anyway, I just needed a decent source of income while I went to school at night.

I just counted how many positions I have held. I have had nine jobs in 15 years. Four of those jobs blew, two I quit, the other two I was fired. I have also been on UC twice in those 15 years. I am starting to feel kind bad about being a slacker, better hold on to my widow money, LOL

I also believe in business you can be a nice person, good to your team and make hard decisions. Being ruthless can be necessary in business, but you can't be constantly ruthless. If people hate you at work, it tips the scales the other way too. Stuart might be too nice, he might need some coaching. I guess some people would see it as him just fighting for his job, but Doug is kind of a scumbag in the scenario.

If they are worried about cutting the fat, etc. think about all of the training they will have to incur costs from when people do not want to work under this kind of person and quit.

In the article it describes two management styles. The Stuart's of the world will consistently have/hold jobs. Being educated, able to handle your job responsibilities with tact and concern for your employees are skills that Doug doesn't possess. I would hate to work for a Doug. In fact, I have worked for a Doug types and Stuart types. I quit the Doug jobs. LOL Seriously, I am unemployed right now, and I am not afraid. I know I will find something. If you have a decent skill set, an education and have had relevant work experience then things will work out fine. If not, heck train for another arena that you are interested in!

I know I am not the norm, I have had six jobs in my 15 years of real job experience. I just don't see sticking with a company unless it is worth it, heck call me disloyal. I really wouldn't call it that, if companies treated their employees the way they should, most people wouldn't become job gypsies, LOL

I recently graduated and trust me if I don't find a job I really want right off the bat, I will take something I have to take and keep looking for the "long term" job with a growth pattern and a decent salary. I did it during my college years and I will continue to do it until I find the right place for myself.

Never heard of Cowboy Bebop anime but I like Keanu. I guess Slashdot is full of Keanu haters.

I agree with you on some of your points, but c'mon give the woman a break. Her mindset in dealing with computers is narrow. If you are not extremely computer savvy, and you have only been exposed to Windows, that is what you are going to feel most comfortable going with, LOL

Most users want to pop in a CD or log in easily, etc, send their assignments quickly. Which you can do with Linux I am assuming probably fairly easily, you just have to get used to it, installing a distro is not for the faint hearted, partitioning disks, I am too afraid to do a dual boot, because I do not want to screw up my new Dell. I don't have an old laptop to practice on either. Linux seems to be for people that like to tinker.

I do not have hardly any Linux exposure except downloading a few freebie programs because I was too cheap to pay for the software. Honestly if you want more people to adopt Linux, start with that, people will get hooked with the free software, and then maybe think of adopting Linux as their OS. Just my opinion.

Also when you are starting an online program and you have never been in an online learning enviroment, you will have to grasp the way to use Blackboard or Angel or whatever the school uses effectively but getting your feet wet with one class with the level of what her current computer skills are at now.

Most people do not have the curiousity that would entail them to learn another OS. I just bought a Dell with Vista on it. I didn't buy MS Office because OO works perfectly fine and the docs can be saved in a Windows format. I might use a portable disc if I decided to use Linux, but it would never be my main OS because I am not partitioning my hard disk.

I am sure my opinion on this subject will be in the minority, but it is a woman's perspective. I also thought the person who said she should not be at a technical college at her age was extremely insulting, you can learn a lot about computers if you sleep, eat and breath it for a year and be up to speed, hell it changes so quickly anyway. But hey, you are right she is not a "self starter" or Nancy Drew. Maybe technical college will turn her into one, LOL

Yup, coffee makes you assault little old ladies and kick children. That video was pretty funny. It is true though, sometimes you drink coffee because it is readily available and not desired and then you get used to that schedule and you get used to the caffeine. Sometimes I wonder what would happened if there were mass internet outages and coffee was also taken away, a portion of the world would crash or go completely ape shit haywire. :) I remember when I was working in an office I religiously had coffee at 4 PM almost every day, now I don't drink it at all because I am not working in an office.

I think they are confusing coffee with pot, jmtc...

The opposite effect, LOL Video Games in Jail

Frontal cortex dysfunction has been linked with antisocial and violent behavior, but emotion comes along with it, and his severe anger. There was no emotional connection to him and his mother and father except anger and disconnection. This case seems to me that there was no connection between parent and child. He obviously tried to off his parents, and it was probably a culmination of a lot of things going on there, not just the video game, that was the catalyst obviously though, maybe it was the breaking point. He is a psychopath. I don't think games completely changed him, but it set the guy off unfortunately and if there was a gun that could be easily obtained, this is the sad thing that happens. I don't know what they should do with people like this. Most psychologist think they should be studied. He will probably sit in a jail cell for the rest of his life. Do they let you play video games in jail?

Well you do have some stories that are very sad. But the same thing happened to me, my husband died suddenly, and I was left all alone and you didn't see me jumping off a bridge or drinking myself to death, etc. I put my life back together. It was the hardest thing I had to do in my life, well so far. :)

Maybe there was something in your friends personalities that lead them to ending their lives that way. I was not going to do that to myself, no way. And it was really hard not to drink and cry and sleep all day, etc. Anyway, you have to have hope. I really feel sad that you think all women are just ornaments or someone to use a man though. In fact, I always get the opposite side of it, so I don't get involved either. I would like to keep what I have! LOL Anyway, I do have hope, I would like to have a child before I get too old. My mother said to buy a dog. LMAO

The point is, there are just as many lonely women as there are men out there. And no, they are not socially awkward or unattractive. Sometimes it takes awhile to find a compatible person. The point is don't give up hope. :) But I do understand what you are saying as I get older, especially in my thirties you just try less. I get what you are saying there. If you have been in a few relationships that did not work out, I can see it get harder and harder to invest in a new person.

Well the attractive poor guy could be a jerk and the rich ugly guy could be very caring. So it isn't that cut and dry.

Well I was born in the 70's and most of my girlfriends I have were actually born in the mid 80's. They really are looking for love with someone that cares for them. In fact they cry to me every week about these bums they cater to, they are all pretty decent looking women, they are still trying to figure out who they are though. We have Applebees and Chipotle here too. Try Olive Garden! :) And I can give you and example of a woman in your life that probably wasn't mercenary, how about your Mom? :)

Well for me, a man that plays games for hours and is socially awkward might not be a nerd, but it would not be someone I would feel inclined to start a relationship with, that is my personal preference.

Playing games online for hours every night is not a good thing. Everything in moderation is great. I am not saying that playing the games is a bad thing, playing twice a week would be my threshold to even consider dating someone that gamed. I have been through that stuff before, and I would not go through that again with another guy. To me it is a very immature trait.

I just think playing incessantly where you lose your girlfriend over it because she wants to take a walk or have a cup of coffee with you or go out on a date or a movie or do something non computer related etc. If you are playing every night that person needs to go to Gamers Anonymous, seriously. :(

I completely agree with you. Nerds need to go out there, try things and experience life, so what if it doesn't work out, try something else. :) I also agree with you about the normality complex. What is normal? I would rather be as happy as I could be than fit in with some impossible ideal or change intrinsic parts of myself to cater to someone that doesn't love you for you. That's insanity. Great post.

Not all women are mercenary, even the very beautiful ones. Despite all of the said points above, I think men and women in general are looking for someone that is there for them in times of trouble and someone they have a lot in common with and like as a friend and can respect and love and count on.

Values and morals do still have a place in the dating world, LOL. My favorite part of your rant was the weed thing, priceless. LMAO