There isn't any question that our views differ, and it isn't a "slight" difference. The US invaded Afghanistan in a legitimate act of self defense after a series of attacks on diplomatic posts and military units culminating in the 9/11 attacks. As to Iraq, maybe you could explain to me why you think ordinary Iraqis would want to continue being subjected to Saddam's government? I believe there are hundreds of mass graves that have been found since the invasion, and that is before you get to the question of mass killings with chemical weapons. Iraq was a brutal dictatorship before the invasion, and now it is a functioning even if troubled parliamentary democracy, and US combat forces left long ago. In neither case was their a coup that the US invaded after. And unlike Crimea, Iraq committed hundreds of acts of war against the US before it acted.
So yes, our views are different. My views at least have an identifiable association with history as opposed to being some sort of self-loathing anti-American political fringe rubbish.