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4 times in 12 years? Underachiver?
You, my friend, have a serious problem. A self-esteem problem. Being promoted at an avarage of every 3 years is what the large majority dream of. If that (and your low self-esteem, which appears to derive itself from amounts of promotion/year) is what's troubling you, these books, all of which have had life-changing impact on mine, are the type you should be reading and looking for:
Seneca "Letters from a Stoic" - its roughly 2000 years old iirc and thus public domain (downloads all over the web).
Seneca was a bizarly rich and very powerfull man in Rome back in the day and is one of the more popular members of the 'Stoic' school of philosophy. Stoicisim is basically the western variant of zen buddism, without the weird stuff. Cult of Less, Lean living, focussing on the spiritual and mental, etc.
Marie 'Shakti' Gawain "Creative Visualisation"
Your standard 101 new age positive thinking book. A classic. Cheap, short, to the point. Where Joseph J. Murphy, Norman Vincent Peale, Rhonda Byrne and all the rest go on babbling for endless pages (and sometimes many books) Shakti Gawain cuts straight to the chase. A must for every bookshelf. Read this one and you'll know all there is to know about positive thinking and you'll get a neat stomachable dose of uplifting new age along with it. As with seneca I always go back to Gawain when in trouble and looking for advice on how to condition myself for the next trials. This little book has been with me for 25 years and it never grows old.
Tim Ferriss - "The four hour workweek"
This guy deserves some credit, if only for tipping me of on stoicism and seneca. The four hour workweek is basically a modern lifestyle design guide, a kind of 'Stoicism implementation plan'. I ran into this one a few years ago (when it was in the lists) and had quite a few usefull inspirations from it. His blog can be worth a read aswell, he also does (i)regular web chatshows with Kevin Rose of digg.com fame. Very funny and entertaining. Currently the latest article on his blog is on another stoic of ancient Rome, Cato.
Chris Guillebeau "The Art of Non-Conformity"
Guillebeau is sort of the less boastfull Tim Ferriss. If Ferris is to much haming and dick-waving for your taste, do at least try this guy. The book has similarities with FHWW, but also its own approach to the subject matter. Also very inspiring and well worth the money and time.
Jason Fried & David Heinemeier Hansson "Rework"
Result oriented working in the brave new digital age. If there is a book that will lift your spirits and change your habits and workstyle for the better right away, in your current line of work, then it is this one. A must read for you and your co-workers once your done with it. The HR Chief of a large software corporation I once worked for came in one day carrying a stack of copies of "Rework" and just put them into the companies library. Didn't even bother registrating them with codes and tags first. Very smart move.
Anything from Alan Watts
The western zen buddhist. He changed me from a kid scared of life and death into a human being by introducing me to non-confessional, free zen buddhism. His explainations and lectures are top notch, very comforting and carry lots of weight. I can't tell if you'll still be as inspired once you've read Seneca, but I ran into this guy (at the age of 14) way earlyer than Seneca, so there. Definitely changed my life, this guy.
Rudolf Steiner "How to Know Higher Worlds: A Modern Path of Initiation" and "Intuitive thinking as a spiritual path" aka "The Philosophy of Freedom"
Forget what you have heard about this guy, most of it is legend. If his followers appear to outlandish to bear for longer than a few days in a quarter, I'm right there with you. Steiner however is the prime spiritual teacher of our time (he lived roughly 100 years ago). Any other religion or spiritual path pales im comparison. He starts with the mind and the human ability to think and takes it from there. Meditation is a subject, but not in the way we usually think of it. Think Linus Torwalds vs. your Grandma in programming and you get the picture of Steiner vs. Ole Nydahl or other spiritual authorities of today. If you want to spiritually advance yourself, these two books will have you covered for life. His mental excersises alone are years worth of brain-workout.
That's my list, afaict. Couldn't tell if I've forgotten anything important. I also can't tell if all of these are 100% your fit, but I *can* guarantee you that they all have had a profound positive impact on my life and continue to do so. It would be very strange indeed if not each of these would at least give you something worth the money and time.
My 2 cents. Enjoy.