You need to put down the red/black pills and lay off the misogynist incel social media. Woman in the US are more likely today to be married to a shorter man than they were 40 years ago, and the difference in height of married couples has reduced by 1 inch since then. Three times as many married women are the primary breadwinner today as compared to 40 years ago. Women's STD rates are not significantly higher than men's STD rates, although reported rates are far higher for women. This is because women aged 18-64 are 50% more likely to visit a doctor each year than men, and the discrepancy is even greater for young adults.
It is true that women have more relative power in society today than they did decades ago, and that has hurt the dating market. Dating standards have always been relative, so if one side is becoming relatively more "attractive" then people on the other side will become less attractive on average. This is a pretty significant societal problem, but it is nowhere near as drastic as red/blue pill advocates claim. Women's standards have been dropping for decades, although arguably not fast enough. Men have also been starting to take on more family responsibilities for decades, although also arguably not fast enough.
Divorce law is also mostly not pro-woman, it is pro-equity. In practice this means divorce law's goal is to reduce the power disparity between spouses with unequal power. In practical terms power usually equates to income level, so if you have more income than your spouse you will have a significant amount of your power stripped away by the courts. Considering 55% of marriages have a male breadwinners and 16% have a female breadwinner (29% are egalitarian), in practice divorce laws favor women far more regularly than they favor men. One area where divorce courts unfairly favor women is in custody disputes, so men have a more valid level of frustration there.