You get better with tactical awareness. You could study it offline if you prefer, and it would probably translate well to the game.
Of course there's still the issue of handling the controller properly, which comes with practice and good posture (relaxed, with your right hand anchored so your thumb can move freely and precisely). Yeah it's tough to compete online. I noticed the competition gets a little easier around 4-6am, if it helps.
Or you simply didn't have the right teachers or the right mindset. I found that I wasn't able to play music particularly well either, until I altered my mind and talked to various professional artists/creators.
However, this brings up an interesting point. The whole point here is to scientifically study the human brain. So it doesn't surprise me that these concepts that can't be scientifically proven (yet) are being derided as liberal equality feel-good ideas that we all have the same brain capability.
Brains may form different physical properties as a result of their evolution/development throughout life, but most functional components in the brain all work the same way, and many people are capable of things they are not aware of. Or put another way, very few people reach their full potential, which is why we don't see van goghs or mozarts everywhere. Actually, these people were obsessive about their craft. Mozart probably analyzed more scores and sheet music than any other musician before. He was extremely dedicated. It didn't just happen.
Round 2. The NYTimes paywall already lost round 1. Will the broadcast tv corps follow suit? Stay tuned.
Swearing in excess is just a phase, and by no means a mainstream habit. There will always be movies and works of art that push the extremes, just to do it. That's the point.
Personally, I have found it's a phase. The more you swear the more you learn how to swear, and when it's appropriate. When you first start, you sound like a damned fool. Our culture at large I think reflects this same process. The worst force I see effecting swearing right now is the demonization of it, and that it is somehow worse to say certain words, as if there is a punishing god that cares.
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