Comment Re:On the subject of games (Score 4, Informative) 200
You have three choices (assuming the Total War series cannot be counted as viable Multi Player choices)
More Strategic: R.U.S.E (awesome visuals, very autonomous units, very indirect control)
More Direct: Supreme Commander - Forged Alliance (decent visuals, unprecedented scope of war and great control over your units)
More StarCrafty: Supreme Commander 2 (think ugly Starcraft with the ability to fully zoom out)