Sorry about your wife. I can see how you might achieve certain perspectives after that.
Nervetheless, I think the scenarios I'm speaking of do have a valid perspective in this forum. This is /. and a internet privacy is a recurring and important topic, is it not?
Two points here:
1. Clearly our internet communications are being monitored by third parties outside the endpoints. Time, data, endpoints, and content. This data is being stored forever. To what end?
2. Encrypting everything is not that radical of a position - its not like the existing infrastructure can't handle it, and it is not like the end users would even notice.
As far as Google goes, isn't that part of the deal? I know Google will use some bit of my information, and I have an idea of how they use it. I chose Google here, and, FWIW, the deal is pretty well outlined by Google. For unencrypted comm, Its not like I'm choosing the third who is listening. I don't really know that deal - the rules aren't really published.