I'm going to play the devil's advocate here.
What if average people, in a country that is relatively uneducated, do not know best how to govern the country?
Compare China's government to the large democracies of India and Indonesia. Is it less effective? Is it more corrupt? Look what happened to Russia after communism fell. Should the same thing happen to China?
China has, probably, the best government it has ever had. The approval rating is apparently around 90%. If it was a person, they would be re-elected.
Just because in the U.S. our democratic system produces leaders who we think are capable and who govern responsibly, does not automatically mean that in a 3rd world country the same result would occur. We don't have to worry about the stability of our government or (for the most part) people questioning its legitimacy, but are developing countries the same? Is having some web sites censored too large a price to pay for more peaceful economic development and less political fighting? Is porn included in free speech?
I don't have an answer to these questions myself, but it seems like it isn't completely a one-sided issue.