If you never said it, fair enough. I was just saying that was certainly one way to read your post because you expressed your opinion in such an absolute way.
Religion, like any belief system, does not force anyone to do anything. Choices are made by individuals. Just because a religion may say "thou shalt not kill" or "smite the unbelievers" or "Cthulhu ftagn!" does not mean that each follower of that religion will never kill, shoot some infidels, or await the return of the Great Old Ones. Religion influences, I'll grant you...but to assign to it the kind of control you seem to be doing ignores the capability of an individual to choose, and thus reality.
You say that lying to people about reality is never a good thing. In general, that's true. To speak it in absolute terms, though, is a step I hesitate to take. Further, your equating "lying to people about reality" and religion is fallacious. I'm a Christian, but I believe that evolution happened. To me, and many other religious people, faith isn't about telling people how the world got here but about answering questions of "why?" I'll tell someone why I believe what I do, but refrain from saying "this is the way it is, deal with it;" thus I avoid being deceitful. It is these kinds of believers that you denigrate when you speak of religion the way you do.
You say that it is not religion that has contributed to art. I agree. My post said that religion has done wonderful things for its believers. The contributions to our body of knowledge I mentioned came not from religion, but by people who believe in it. That's why the musical piece is called *Handel's* Messiah. I am glad that we agree here and that you can give credit where it's due for the good works. Why can you not do the same for the bad?
I believe in things that are real to me. Who are you, or anyone else, to tell me that I'm lying to myself? If I try to convert you, you're within your rights to ask for evidence. Otherwise, live and let live, right?
I don't have kids, but if I did one day, I would raise them to reflect my beliefs as I'm sure you would yours. Fundamental to mine is the ability of right of all men to choose. I was raised in a very, very conservative fundamentalist sect, yet here I am talking to you instead of screaming at you about Hellfire. I was raised one way and eventually chose another. Give credit where credit is due.
I have never flown a plane into a building. Most religious people haven't.
It's not okay to tell anyone to believe in anything without questioning. Religion isn't the only thing that engenders blind faith.
Do away with religion, and you'll remove a critical piece of the human experience. You say the world will be a better place for it (between removing religion and education), but the truth of the matter is you don't know that. No one does. You *believe* that, for sure. There's a difference, however, between knowledge and belief.