It is a FACT that ebola is ONLY CONTAGIOUS when symptoms are present.
Only if you ignore the last fifteen years of established science. Many people get Ebola and never show symptoms at all. We know this because they test positive for the antibodies to Ebola. Those people are believed to have had the virus in their blood at some point during the course of the disease. Therefore, under the right circumstances, it is possible for someone not showing symptoms of Ebola to spread the disease. It is highly unlikely, and has not been documented to occur in the wild so far (that we know of), but claiming that it is impossible based solely on limited anecdotal evidence is downright terrifyingly bad science.
I'd be happy to dig up the citations again if you really want me to, or you can just Google it yourself.
The US is so dramatically different than Africa it is quite literally impossible for the disease to become an epidemic here.
I wouldn't assume that. Most viruses spread more easily in cold, dry weather, which the affected parts of Africa don't really have. The related Reston virus is believed to have spread among lower primates as an airborne contagion in the U.S., whereas that was previously believed to be impossible based on its behavior in Africa. So it could just as easily be true that Ebola is more likely to spread here, rather than less.
Of course, it is also possible that Ebola's sensitivity to dry air will counterbalance any increased susceptibility, and that the virus will be almost impossible to spread here. The thing is, we just won't know until we have a few years of history with the disease inside the U.S.
We have better healthcare infrastructure, we have better hygeine and water treatment, we have different living arrangements, we have different customs regarding the handling or disposal of bodies, and several factors, all of which contribute to making the disease so dramaitcally less likely to spread and kill in our country.
We also have workaholics who go to work sick, which contributes to making all diseases dramatically more likely to spread in this country than in many other countries. You're cherry-picking a handful of differences that support your point, while ignoring other differences that contradict it. Just saying.