OK, here's a test: name any country that "doesn't like" Belgium, or New Zealand or Sweden or ... or (the list goes on).
Right, name the last time the world depended on Belgium, New Zealand, Sweden or... (the list goes on) to solve any problem, or come to anyone's aid in their time of need, or make any tough decision on a matter of any international consequence.
Like it or not, after WW2 the US became the only country in the West to have any major international responsibility. Every NATO country depends on the US almost exclusively for their national defense. Because of the global scope of US military involvement during/after WW2 and during the Cold War, to this day the US is the only country with the responsibility to keep rogue nations and aggressors in check.
When you're the only guy who has to make all the tough decisions, obviously you're going to make some enemies. The US has far more allies than enemies, but you can't please all of the people all of the time.
The US has made mistakes of course, but has also brought a tremendous amount of peace and prosperity to a big portion of the world. I don't think the answer to today's threats is for the US to withdraw from its international responsibilities, stop making the tough decisions and become more like Sweden, just voting "present" and hoping that won't piss anyone off.