I suspect we'll never come to an agreement, as my point of view is based solely on my own expectations of human behaviour. I think you have different (somewhat more positive) expectations.
The short version is that it's already quite possible to participate in decision making processes for even minor things. Local governments, community groups, school councils, etc: everywhere you look, there's people practically begging for members of the community to get involved. Most people don't, partly because it's perceived as too difficult or time consuming, and partly due to apathy or disinterest.
There are many times where a person has a fantastic solution to a big issue, but they can't get it to appeal to their representative so they give up.
I'd really need to see many examples of such before believing it's true often enough to be significant. Most fantastic solutions are fantastic for a particular person or group of people, but have a negative impact on others. Usually not due to malice, but simply ignorance. Most people simply don't have the time to understand everyone's perspective on an issue. Once you start to factor in the views of everyone that will be affected, the fantastic solution stops seeming so fantastic.
Further, representatives have a vested, personal self-interest in latching onto and introducing fantastic ideas. If someone is able to come up with a fantastic idea but is somehow unable to convince someone who has every reason in the world to take it on board, then it seems unlikely they'd have much more success in an open forum filled with many other proposed solutions. However they also have an interest in not offending groups, which is why they reject solutions that are one-sided. (To a degree: obviously they have no interest in promoting solutions that will improve things for people that would never vote for them.)
Consider any scenario you like, and the more people that are involved in it, and the more diverse the backgrounds of those people are, the harder is for them to come to an agreement. So making it easier to participate is a double-edged sword: it's easier for you to have your say, but there's many more people also having their own say.
Another thing I've noticed is that if you ask people to make a decision on something, they'll be reluctant to even have an opinion on the subject. If you say "I'll make the decision, does anyone have any suggestions?" then everyone will suddenly have an opinion because they won't be responsible if it turns out to be a bad solution. What incentive does someone who has a bee in their bonnet have to come to a reasonable compromise, rather than sticking to their guns and trying to get their exact vision implemented? If they win and it all goes pear-shaped, hey, it's not their fault - everyone else agreed with them! If they get overruled it just proves to them that the system "isn't working" because their brilliant idea wasn't listened to.
So for all those reasons, I don't think the implementation of such a system would really change much. Most people would continue to be apathetic; most of those that do take an 'interest' in an issue will do so because whatever media personality they listen to told them to, and will continue to be poorly-informed on the issues; and those who actively participate and actually care will be just as disenfranchised as they currently are, because the decisions are still going with the majority who are just parroting whatever the talking heads said.
Without a corresponding cultural shift, I don't really see that improving the technology will make a significant difference. Of course, actually implementing such a technological solution would probably require that the society already be undergoing such a shift.