Haha, don't worry, I didn't take offence to what you said, and as you said we're a Nordic, but not Scandinavian country. And I do agree that there's a distinct difference between Scandinavia and Finland. Also the fact that Finland was part of Russia (well some some finns like saying Russia was a part of Finland) did of course have an impact on our culture. I don't directly disagree with your other points either, but I think things might not be quite that drastic.
But my main point is that at least nowadays, I think Finland's culture is closer to Scandinavian than Russian. It's probably been getting closer for a long time. But having spent time in all the Nordic countries and Russia and Estonia, and meeting a lot of people from them, imho the difference between Scandinavia and Finland is there, but it's not that big. Compared to Swedes and Norwegians, Russians are alien to me (generalizing of course).
We still love you, Finland, we're just not the same.
To feed your fire, I just have to say, we tough finnish men don't need love. Or at least show it ;).