Right, but if everyone sits there insisting "Respect is earned" then nobody ever respects anyone
Not necessarily true. You can have a baseline amount of respect for people you don't know, but whether they lose respect or gain respect is decided by their actions. Islam hasn't made anything to earn respect for a very long time, while doing everything it can to lose whatever baseline respect we might have. In fact, Islam has lost so much respect because of its actions that it is approaching negative infinity on the respect meter.
I don't respect Islam, I just respect peoples' rights to believe whatever they want and as long as they don't impact my life doing it, they can do what they like.
So you don't give a rat's ass about Muslims threatening or assaulting people over a few cartoons? I mean, "as long as they don't impact your life".
When they assault our freedoms, they impact my life, despite the fact that I have never drawn any Muhammad cartoon. I cannot accept that our rights are encroached by their silly "sensitivities".