The weather comment was meant as a joke. I should have put a smiley in to make that clearer.
What I wear has no bearing on this discussion.
The simple fact is that when a place has expensive housing costs, it's because there is a lot of competition for that housing. And the reason for a lot of competition for housing is that a lot of people want to live there. And believe me, people have reasons that they want to live in a place, it's not "peer pressure" or whatever reason you're making up because you can't think of one.
I'm genuinely happy that you like where you live and that it's an inexpensive place to live. Many young people, especially those who are "upwardly mobile" because they work in a high paying industry, really want to live in an urban place with alot of "action". When they get to be old guys many of them lose interest in that and the equations change, and they move elsewhere. I'm quite certain that you've seen this pattern already even if you don't recognize it.
You sound a lot like my dad, who I feel is very lucky to have the mindset he does: he really loves living in one of the cheapest places in the U.S. (northeastern Ohio). His cost of living is absurdly low and he was able to retire to a comfortable life of doing whatever he wants, alot of which involves outdoor activities like boating, fishing, and hunting that are plentiful and cheap in that area. It's the lucky person who naturally wants to live in the place that many other people are fleeing, because their cost of living will be so low.
Well he bought a house in Florida recently because he couldn't stand Ohio winters any more, but half a year in Ohio and the other half in Florida really is the best of both worlds for him, and it's all doable because of the low cost of living of the areas he lives in.
Now I could spout off about how I cannot comprehend how someone would want to live in a place where the housing is cheap because it mostly sucks there, but I won't. I recognize that different people like different things and I'm not going to assume that other people are unjustified in their choices. That feels alot like a superiority complex trying to get out.