What a bizarre attitude.
I'd love to seem my neighbours clean up all the rat infested rubbish they keep dumping, but it's their yard.
I'd love to see criminals not stabbing people, but it's their knife.
Poor analogies. It would be more akin to wanting your neighbour to spend his money to buy you a TV instead of one for himself.
I think we will find that we regulate people's behaviour for everyone's benefit all the time,
Well, I certainly agree that we do "regular people's behaviour" all the time but I do not consider enforcing rights to be "regulating" and what we do makes no statement regarding what we should do. And it occurs to me that we're headed straight towards a semantic argument, and so "regulate" isn't really a good word. When you hear the word obviously that includes preventing people from harming others. When I hear the word I think of dictating to people what to do with their property and/or thoughts. I'm going to stop using that word since it makes communication more difficult.
If you're concerned about "everyone's benefit" then really consider the meaning of "everyone." Society is a group of individuals who choose to coexist, form interpersonal relationships and trade with one another. Given that definition, the "good of society" must include every single individual that comprises that society. Would you then agree that if an act hurts one single individual then it cannot be said to be "good for society" ("everyone's benefit") ?
The only way, therefore, to protect "society" is to protect the individual and that means protecting individual rights and liberty. For the sake of clarity I define "liberty" as "an environment in which all relationships are consensual."
Business operates with license from us. We make the rules.
If "we make the rules" then that puts anyone who gets to claim to represent "we" in a position of great power. If it's up to certain individuals or groups to sacrifice or make concessions for the sake of "society" then everyone is placed immediately into an arena where each group battles it out to get the privileged position of claiming to "be society."
I know there's an awful, face-palm-inducing quote by Mitt Romney saying that "corporations are people too." I am not a Romney supporter, nor a republican, nor do I want to get into a discussion about corporate law and how corporations should be treated (since they are a special case of business and subject to special laws). But when it comes to businesses keep in mind that businesses are created by individuals using their money and their ideas to produce something for the purposes of trade. A business is property. Therefore you're saying that "society" gives a license to everyone else to own property and use it how they see fit. That's a dictatorship, by definition. If the government is "we" and "we" give a license to own and use property how "we" see fit then the government has the authority to take your house, your food, your clothes, your car and anything it wants because you only hold that property with a license from "us."
Since human beings, by our nature, are both a body and a mind; both material and non-material, it means that our nature dictates that we have to satisfy two kinds of "needs." We've acknowledged that people do not think with a license but there's a huge push in the direction of claiming that we breathe (or digest food etc.) with a license, which is essentially the argument that you just made.
"We" can either protect an individual's right to own property or "we" can dictate what a person is to do with their material possessions (and by extension their bodies), which out principle would make it "our" property, making "us" a dictatorship since we would be dictating how people live their lives.