Comment rudeness butts into common sense (Score 2) 248
essentially blaming them after she behaved rudely to her family and friends
Apparently one person's "rude" is another person's common sense. (Invocation of "blame" is another red flag that common sense has left the building.) 100% of the rudeness here derives from unbalanced technology, because Facebook wants it that way.
Entire countries filter the internet. Yet as an individual, it's not practical for me to contract a public identity management agency which allows me to enact controls over what personal information I'm willing to see splattered into the public space on malign service hosts.
Nothing should go onto your social media pages that doesn't first go through your own appointed screening filter, if you choose to have one.
Had such an option been available, her personally appointed screening filter would have simply bouncing back a message to her uncle to the effect that "Janet doesn't wish to see her reproductive status conveyed on cloud services".
It's not rude. It's common sense.