And none of the statistical analysis fits with me. No amount of f-stop can make me look better, and my number of sex partners at age 30 was still zero regardless of cell-phone type.
Wrong,
No amount of f-stop can make you look better in real life....
The single most important thing in the online dating game is the first impression. On a website there are only two tools available to you to make that first impression.
1. Your written profile.
2. Your photograph.
Anyone can write a good profile.
Just take your time for it. Read, re-read, adjust. Don't rush it, take a couple of days to work on it so you have time to make sure it's well written, and perfectly targeted at the demograph you'd like to meet.
Your picture is even more important since it's the very first thing people look at when visiting your profile.
The difference between having a normal, average, shot and good quality photo is huge.
I've been dating via datingsites for a long time, for shits-n-giggles, to get laid, to just meet other persons, etc etc. I basically just like the game and the challenge of it.
I'm a average looking guy and I guess I get a average amount of replies/succesrate.
At one point a friend of mine, a professional photographer, wanted to experiment with some new techniques and asked if I could pose for a couple of shots.
They turned out te be quite good, gave me a bit of a "rough" look and I started using pictures of that session in my datingprofiles. The results were quite staggering. The amount of replies and comments I got on my profile shot through the roof, four times as much as before when I used just a average pic.
In online dating a good first impression isn't winning half the battle, it's winning 75% of the battle.. The steps from having a few messages send back and forth to a actual date is pretty easy after that.
Lesson learned: Looks matter, A LOT, and they can be manipulated..
1. write a good profile
2. get yourself decent pictures
3. .
4. profit
No "????" at 3 because you can skip that step if done right.
Oh, and get yourself a iPhone ;-)