Comment Re:Why not? (Score 1) 892
I was in a similar situation and had a job offer. I stayed the two weeks during which I would have given notice and wrapped up everything that needed wrapping up. I emptied my email, removed all needed files from my laptop to storage accessible by my team. I gradually removed all personal items from my desk (no one noticed or if they noticed, said anything). At the end of those two weeks, I let my team know what was going on and swore them to silence. At the end of the day, I waited until my tormentors left, sent my resignation by a timed email to arrive two hours later, put my phone and laptop in a locked drawer and left the key where the email said it would be. I turned in my badge to security on the way out and never looked back. I did this to coincide with payday, so there was little fuss about the final check.
I continued to run into my team for several years and they always greeted me warmly.
I could not face one more session of being screamed at.
Another employer nearly interfered with being hired by giving a "would not rehire" recommendation -- their policy was to give that to anyone who quit, notice or no. And I had given them the notice requested in my offer letter and long discussions with my then manager. I was only able to get that "would not rehire" disregarded by pointing out that I had to take that employer to court for my last check.
There is no guarantee, as an employer or employee, that being reasonable will result in reasonability from behaving professionally.