All I heard in my head while reading this comment was "Americuh! F*ck yeah! Freedom is the only way, yeah!"
I don't believe the parent's post was really meant in that way. The parent was speaking more of inalienable rights that belong to humanity as a whole, rights that each of us would have with or without governments as they are completely separate and independent of government. You may argue that it is not on anyone to decide others have these rights, but I really believe living, breathing, eating, enjoying something, communicating with your fellow human beings, love, hope, etc are all rights every living person has. Individual governments can try to convince people otherwise and even say you can't do some of these things, but a government telling people they can't live, love, communicate, etc can't possibly be right can it?
I'm certainly not saying freedom is the only way. The USA isn't even completely free as we're not an anarchy. Heck, there are plenty of people in this country who are practically begging for a dictator to take away all of that very hard and nasty decision making they have to do on a daily basis, and one day one will find them. Different things work for different people but obviously it isn't working for some over there or else there wouldn't be protests and the government wouldn't feel the need to cut off their people from communication.
The Middle East is not your playground. You are not the world's moral compass. We do not see you as something to aspire too, but simply another way of doing things. You're doing such a bang up job in Iraq and Afghanistan; Please, beseech your leader to enforce the indomitable will and unwavering ideology of Western Society on another Middle Eastern territory. They're completely ready to move away from the current political system they have, and won't descend into exactly the same situation in no time at all as the people are still living in a society where religion and law are still very closely knitted together.
It took Yeomanry and the Renaissance in Europe to get us out of a heavily feudal system, with separation of church and state. Leave them to it and they will get there.
No, it's not our playground and imposing morality on others, ironically, can often interfere with other people's inalienable rights we were just discussing. I don't really believe morality has anything to do with why we're in the Middle East anyways. I suspect it's far more political and, unfortunately, the politicians and the corporations that sponsor them probably do feel like the Middle East is their playground.
Ultimately I do agree with your philosophy on letting them be. You can't really "give" someone freedom of any kind or any amount (I'm not talking about USA freedoms or anything... more of just the general concept) as they'll not appreciate it and, eventually, they'll just slide back into the system that was running them and owning them before. People have to WANT it and then they have to want it enough to fight for it through politics, protests, and maybe even the battlefield. Developing countries need to develop naturally and not dragged along. The USA has plenty of developing left to do itself and I wouldn't really want our current state of affairs spreading anywhere as I'm starting to feel that we, as a people, have very little say in anything anymore and that the corporations are quickly becoming the true citizens of this country.