eBooks can be more convenient. They are currently not more convenient. The reason they are not more convenient is because the implementation of DRM negates a huge number of benefits that eBooks(as files) posess, but are unable to realize.
You keep conflating the two interpretations of "more convenient". Is an apple more convenient than an orange? You could certainly make that point as you don't have to peel an apple to eat. An apple would be even more convenient if it didn't have a core that was hard to eat or had to be thrown out afterwards.
If you take out DRM from eBooks, I have zero complaints which are not just byproducts of the medium. ie: Physical books require light to read, occupy space, etc; eBooks require electricity, require support equipment, etc.
The list goes on, ..., ebooks can be bought instantly, often in places where the physical books are not available; ebooks can be stored on multiple devices, I can read the same book on the subway as I'm reading on my bedside; I can easily find the ebook rather than looking for which shelf or in which box I put it or which friend I loaned it to; I can travel with 50 different ebooks in my carryon rather than 1; I can instantly look up a definition, a translation, do a text search on the book, see all references to a character or place; I can easily read with one hand or lay it on a flat surface (for workouts, bath tub, ...); I can receive corrections and updates to the ebook automatically; and several more.
None of these features are "negated" by DRM. For you, personally, DRM is big issue, but it is clearly not for a huge number of people. All the problems you mention are trivial to me and many others and I expect you're exaggerating them for yourself as well. Let me address your issue with "Here is what an eBook is and this is what you can do with it." I primarily use Amazon, so I can easily tell you that it performs 99% of what I would do with a physical book right now and does a hell of a lot more. I have absolute confidence that I will still be able to read that eBook on any number of devices in a few months and I have little doubt that I will be able to access that book in 3, 5, 10 years. I even have a reasonable chance of being able to read that eBook in 20 or 50 years.
No, I don't know that every specific feature will remain the same, but I don't care (much) as long as the primary function still works, which it has a very high probability of doing in the near future and decent probability in long term. About as high (in the case of Amazon, at least) as it would for a physical book, actually.
In the rare case I want to "loan" a book to a friend I can send him a link electronically and he can download a copy of the eBook himself for a fee (which may very well be the same fee that I paid). All without the hassle of driving over to his house to hand the physical book, keeping track of it so I can pester him to give it back when he's done, only to find that he it's got coffee stains and many of the pages are wrinkled because he read it in the bath.
Paper books and eBooks are not the same, they don't have to do everything that the other does for them to be tremendously useful - this includes loaning or reselling. It would be great if eBooks also had those features, but that is a bonus, not a requirement. If you can figure out a way to get rid of the DRM while still protecting the publishers and booksellers, I suggest you let them know. They're not idiots and they're only as greedy as every other for-profit business - it's just that this is a difficult problem with no easy solution. The absolute freedom and guarantee you demand is not reasonable and you wouldn't want to pay the high cost to pay for it.