"Why should college necessarily be a "fond personal experience"? You're there to learn, are you not?"
You're there to do a lot of things. Learn is one of them. But get real for a moment, nearly everything one learns in a college classroom one forgets within weeks, months, and certainly years. This is not cynicism, this is fact. If you take an Econ course or a Psychology course, months or years later former students can't recite lots of facts learned.
College is about learning facts, learning discipline, learning teamwork, learning about other people, broadening your mind, transitioning to being an adult. All the goals are important. For some certain goals will be more important than for others. For some, the stuff one learns will be highly aligned with the work they do in the workplace in 2, 5, and 20 years, for others the stuff they learn will have little to do with future work, and that's ok.
Anyway, with a broader view of what one could and should get from college, I think college can and should be a fond personal experience.
--JSt