The only major company I know that uses consumer grade HDs in volume is probably Google
What qualifies as "major"?
"Enterprise" grade drives are often faster, having better processors and more cache
The cache is whatever is written on the drive, so a "Enterprise" drive with 32 MB of cache has less than a "Consumer" drive with 64 MB. I don't know what the heck you think the word "Enterprise" gets you in this case?
drive manufacturers have to listen to server and storage array manufacturers and meet their requirements
Different storage arrays have different requirements, I hate the idea that people think "Enterprise" magically got all the tradeoffs correct. For example, low power and high responsiveness are BOTH valid goals but probably are at odds. Some Enterprises (like Backblaze and Shutterfly) care deeply about their electrical power bill and the drives aren't the performance bottleneck. Should we buy enterprise drives or not?
Caring / avoiding harm, and equity/justice are universal morals (care about others, don't hurt them, and be just and equitable to others).
Humans and primates have these values ingrained in them. When people violate them, they feel guilty (sociopaths are pathological because they violate them without guilt).
Other universal morals, like group loyalty, are usually subordinate to these main two. That is, you should not harm lots of outsiders unfairly out of blind loyalty to your own group.
"Do unto others" is much too simple, but I think it's intended to suggest care/avoid harm and equity/justice.
One possible reason that things aren't going according to plan is that there never was a plan in the first place.