The idea is to have a timer that would automatically disable the equipment unless it received an enable signal, either from a satellite or removable medium. It's possible to make such a system that is, at the very least, very difficult to tamper with. Many of the systems on tanks and so on are computer controlled and if the computers stop working then it's a lot less valuable. The goal of such systems is similar to that of crypto: it's not to prevent the enemy from ever using the tanks that they've stolen, it's to prevent them using them quickly. If you have a few weeks to bomb the stolen equipment before it can be used, and the enemy has to invest a lot of high-tech resources into cracking the systems, then that's probably good enough.
Everything you suggest is possible to implement, but herein lies the fault of engineering thinking: logistics. The logistics of maintaining such a system in a manner that is sufficiently secure are just too damned complex to consider them as practical.
If the equipment stole by ISIS could be disabled by default by not receiving the *good-to-go* signal then every other equipment with similar protection is open to jamming. ISIS fighters (and most fighting forces for that matter) are technically savvy enough to constantly jam signals - eventually, they will jam one piece of equipment operated by us or one of our allies.
With such "enabling" equipment in place, then such an incident (jamming one of our own) is probabilistic-ally bound to happen. And that will most likely mean death.
Another option would be to use dongles that activate such equipment, but then again, logistics. How do you procure them? How do you rotate them? What do you do if you lost the dongle, or if the dongle (and/or whoever that carries it) is blown to bits?
The only realistic solution would be to wire equipment sold/transferred to some (not all) allies with electronic keypads that are possibly redundant (multiple interfaces within a tank for example), with multiple paths and fault-tolerant. Such keypads would be on rotation with operating crews knowing the combinations.
But then again, what happens if the operating crew is killed or incapacitated? Another crew would be unable to deploy the equipment. Multiple equipment/crew sets could share a keypad combination schedule, but then, all you have to do is capture and torture enough crew operators to spit the combinations.
Then there is training and the logistics of adding and removing such contraptions (because you do not want such contraptions in *our* equipment).
Logistics and the realities of war make it hardly unlikely to see any such contraptions in the field, me thinks.