What about the opposite? So far, Israel is quite a lot closer to wiping out all Palestinians than the other way around.
That's the problem with fighting a foe who is fanatically committed to committing genocide - if you're going to fight them at all, you often have to resort to genocide in response since your foe will _never_ back down.
Nonsense. If anything, Israel is endangering its own survival by turning into genocidal oppressors. The Palestinians are the ones who have lost their country and their ability to live normal lives. It's Palestinians who have suffered most of the casualties. And not just Hamas; Israel has no problem killing Palestinian civilians.
I don't deny that Hamas is a terrorist organisation with scary goals, but with Israel it's the pot calling the kettle black.
If the Palestinian civilians weren't so tolerant of the methods that Hamas was using, I'd agree with you. But the Palestinian civilians in Gaza aren't just standing next to someone throwing shit at an armed man, they actively encouraging it and the person throwing the shit often intentionally runs behind them after the throw. By your argument the German civilians who supported the Nazi's in WWII were poor innocent victims of the Allied bombing runs.
It is fighting against people who's stated goal is its destruction.
And yet Israel is a lot closer to the destruction of Palestine than the other way around.
Israel may be on its way to destroying _Gaza_, but it's not destroying Palestine. Most of the Palestinian territory is in the West Bank, where most of the Palestinians seem to be willing to live and let live. Yes, you do have occasional confrontations in East Jerusalem, but you don't see rockets flying out of the West Bank on a daily basis, do you?
You've got a scary black-and-white view of the situation. This is not a situation where one party is completely justified and the other is completely evil. They're both at fault. Israel has made Hamas what it is today by giving the Palestinians no other choice. Had they given back all the conquered territory, most Palestinians couldn't care less about Hamas. But Israel has taken Palestinian civilians' ability to live normal lives, and left supporting Hamas as their only option.
What would you do if you lived in a country that had been conquered by another country that denies you your rights and seriously disrupts your way of life? Would you accept that or would you fight back? And what would you do if, in elections, you could either vote for a corrupt and powerless party that talks about peace but hasn't accomplished anything (Fatah), or for an organisation that builds schools and hospitals, and has promised to destroy the oppressor (how unlikely that goal may be)? Because that's what Hamas is to the Palestinians. It's the only one who is trying to improve their way of life (with Saudi money, no doubt), and the fact that they're self-destructive and warlike doesn't matter much, because Israel isn't interested in peace anyway. And certainly not in giving Palestinians back their land and their rights.
I agree that there is plenty of blame to go around on all sides, but long before the Israelis did anything to the Palestinian's, the Palestinians were doing it to themselves. In 1948 they were given land to make their own country, and the option to self-govern. Instead of making the most of it, their leaders told them that they should reject it, go into exile (effectively self-imposed!), and that they should fight for all-or-nothing. They CHOSE that strategy, whereas Israel was perfectly willing to accept the partitioning on the theory that SOMETHING is better than NOTHING.
Israel expanded its territory as a direct response to invasions by its Arab neighbors, who care even less about the Palestinians than the Israelis. Remember, Palestinians != Arabs. The fact is that the Israelis GAVE BACK territory to the Palestinians after they rejected it. You would think they'd be a little grateful for that rather than constantly looking to restart the fight. And if you think that sending your family members off as suicide bombers is a way to improve your life, then I'd hate to be related to you.