EVs are not meant for "remote charging", not yet, not by a long shot. Will that day come? Maybe, but we're are very very very very far away today.
Quick charging requires "temperate" weather. Charging stations have to be reliable (no vandals, for example, yes... vandals). Stations, because even "fast" ones take longer than a fillup (in most cases), need to remember to take care of their patrons (possibly increased security, etc.), there will need to be more "avenues" of "success" when you reach an EV charging station (going to have to think outside the box), etc.
Can you imagine, today, if everyone on the coast of the USA in a hurricane prone area had to evacuate and "the dream of EV" was true across the populace, and all those cars are locked in "forever" traffic are trying to escape???
We will see EV deaths, possibly lots of them, in the coming years, and all would not have happened if the person had not being driving an EV.
Feel free to ponder. I get the "idea" of why you "believe" EV is the "savior of the world", I think it needs quite a bit of work. Quite a bit.